I'm an in-your-face person in the sense that I always make an impression on people -- whether good or bad. I've never been one to hold back my tongue, and that has already caused me a lot of trouble in the past (and even in the present). Yes, I'm brutally frank, and only the strong of heart and mind can really see the wisdom behind my "cariño brutal." But I'm quite a marshmallow to people who are nice to me. Thus, be kind to me and I'll be kind to you. Piss me off and you'll wish you were never born.
And did I say that I'm kind?